Low-Budget Romance

by jarrodmartin1

Okay, I’ve got just a few more days to work up some romance magic for Valentine’s Day.  The thing is, I’ve been thinking about it for the past month, and nothing seems to be working for me.  Every idea I have is either waaaaaay out of budget, or just won’t say what I want to say.  

So, what is a tech-saavy husband to do?  Google it.  I just search “low budget Valentine’s Day” and you wouldn’t believe the pile of pathetic crap I got.  This article — I could have written it myself.  Scavenger Hunt anyone?  This one isn’t too bad, but it seems a little “chintzy” to me.  

Really, I just don’t see how you can say “I Love You” effectively without spending lots of cash…and attention.  I think it takes both.  Money is one of those things that really is a clue to what you deeply care about.  Look at your bank statement, and you’ll see what you prioritize and think is most important.  So, why do we think that at a holiday of love that you can express love effectively without spending much money?  

I’m not planning on spending outside my budget, but I’m definitely going to be dropping some “Hamiltons.”

Anybody got any good ideas for Valentine’s Day?

7 Comments to “Low-Budget Romance”

  1. visit this website and check out the V-day package. You order, cook it for your lady and you are good!!!! And trust me it is delicious!

  2. Thanks, man, but my lady doesn’t like seafood.

  3. no problemo. Does she like chocolate? You are always safe with flowers and chocolate… if you can cook then whip something up!

  4. This might be a little late, but my advice is to focus more on the time than the $$$. From someone who stays home with the kids, a romantic time for me would be to have no responsibilities (i.e. cook, kids, clean) and to chill in a kid-free house all night with someone focusing on me. Sounds a little “girly”, but sometimes someone completely focused on you means more than a nice gift or dinner.

  5. Well, I ended up going techie — I put together a YouTube Valentine’s greeting and typed her a nice little letter that included the link to the video. She loved it.

  6. Great idea! Inexpensive and “homemade”. You can never go wrong there.

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